At-risk kids live everywhere. They are not part of just one demographic. They exist in every community –wealthy, suburban, rural, and yes, inner city. This means they live very near to you.
Growing up with parents, other loved ones, and/or caretakers who have a substance use disorder increases the risk for youth substance use and mental health disorders.
Substance Abuse
When I say substance abuse I’m not just talking about opioids but also alcohol, marijuana, hallucinogens, meth, cocaine, Xanax, synthetics (which are often purchased over the counter and not regulated), and many other drugs such as prescription medication, which are not taken as prescribed but taken to get high.
Statistics that will set your hair on fire --
Twenty percent of children in the US are growing up in families with parents, other loved ones, and/or caretakers who have a substance use disorder.
That more children than are diagnosed with ADHD or a learning disability
According to the 2020 National Survey on Drug Use and Health, 40.3 million people aged 12 or older had a past-year substance use disorder.
Meanwhile, more than four out of five Americans who need treatment for illicit drug use do not receive it.
This means that most children who are living in homes where there is addiction have caregivers with active addiction.
Among kids living with substance abusing parents, 86.2% live with a parent who abuses alcohol. https://drugabusestatistics.org/alcohol-abuse-statistics
Living in chaos has consequences
The often time chaotic environments that lack consistency, stability, and emotional support contribute to the multiple Adverse Childhood Experiences that can increase the risk for:
substance use
mental health disorders
anxiety
depression
oppositional behavior,
conduct problems,
aggressive behavior
as well as lower rates of self-esteem and social competence
and alcohol and drug abuse
not only in adolescence but also in adulthood.
(https://www.samhsa.gov/data/sites/default/files/report_3223/ShortReport-3223.html)
Simple ways you can make a difference
Help children who live with those with addiction delay the onset of any drug use
Encourage parents to speak to their kids about alcohol and drug use. If the parents/caregiver cannot and you are a caring adult, a relative, teacher, or neighbor, then you start this conversation.
Start talking about alcohol and drug use early, hopefully before the child begins experimenting
Alert the child’s pediatrician to addiction in the child’s family and request that they begin screening a child as young as 8-9 about any alcohol or drug use.
Understand that not talking about drugs or alcohol use sends a message --that it’s somehow ok.
encourage parents to lock up ANY prescription medication, and alcohol
Locate Resources
Locate an Alateen group and encourage the child to attend. This is a free, mutual support group for kids, and is part of the Alanon Program. Meetings are worldwide Contact: https://al-anon.org/
Encourage your local school to set up Student Assistance Programs, to provide in-school support and counseling. You can petition at School Board Meetings.
Encourage the development of alcohol/drug-free events in your place of worship, following sporting events, and at community gatherings --- so kids can see adults enjoying themselves and not getting drunk or high.
Plan for alcohol-free special events such as a Sober St. Patrick’s Day Party https://www.soberstpatricksday.org/
Be a compassionate listener
Acknowledge what you see happening in the child’s family, allowing the youth to speak to you about their worries.
Notice the child’s strengths
Acknowledge what you see the child doing right – so that they can see and name their strengths.
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Great article. I used to work with youth-at-risk and adjudicated youth. The stats are staggering, as is the lack of parental support.